What started out as an underground obsession has now swept the entire US...
Really? Really dude?
Get the F*CKing Book!
What started out as an underground obsession has now swept the entire US – and now woman are not afraid to admit it, “ Fifty Shades of Grey“ is a success. My perverted, twisted little mind spared no hesitation in downloading a copy of this exotic book. A few pages in, I was swept away into a [...]
Sex…With An Ex by @DarcyDates
Sometimes relationships end. And when they do, they end for all different reasons. But what I never understood was relationships that continue…with sex. Don’t get me wrong. There is nothing wrong with sex. Sex is great. Sex…is awesome. But when a guy moves you from his A team, to his B team, why would you [...]
TV & Masturbating
In light of recent posts, I thought it would be best to make good use of my non existant free time with a hobby. Being a single parent in NYC with a full time job isn’t the easiest. So instead of chasing/texting dudes or getting my heart broken I have decided to focus my attention [...]
It’s not me, it’s you!
Last week I got bitch slapped with rejection reality. I knew it was eventually coming, but I was told by a dude that he was not interested in a relationship with me and only wanted sex. Ouch. My problem, I knew if I would run into him that we’d wind up having sex and then I would [...]
Taxi!
OMG. Last weekend, I had one of those Sex in the City, NYC moments where my heart melted with admiration. We spent the evening running around the city to various venues, a night filled with music, dancing and booze. Upon arriving at a small club in the east village, I realize I left my brand [...]
If you are married, fuck off!
When I was married, I would get hit on ALL the time by married men. Specifically this would occur when I would travel for conferences, I’d run in to acquaintances whom earlier that day would post pictures on Facebook of their lovely wives and 2.5 kids. What’s the big deal, a few nights away from your [...]
The knee test
Yesterday we wrote about how we prefer to have sex earlier in a relationship. It’s not slutty, we just don’t feel like investing too much time in a relationship if the sex is going to be bad. Fair enough. When making out with a dude, I’ll gently run my leg up his and place my [...]
Man up! Top 10 reasons you are a boy not a Man.
I keep running into the same problem with my adventures in dating…Im finding boys, not men. How can I tell that someone doesn’t qualify as a man? Here are my top 10 examples. 1. He asks me out with short notice. Under 2 days advanced notice is unacceptable 2. He is afraid of the phone. [...]
When can we have SEX?
There are a lot of different thoughts about the role of sex in a new relationship and when its appropriate to have it for the first time. On one hand, Patti Stanger of Millionaire Matchmaker always stresses that you shouldnt have sex until you are in a fully committed monogamous relationship. I just don’t agree [...]
Why do we like unavailable guys?
So, for the past 9 months i’ve been tangled up with a guy going through a divorce who is completely unavailable to be in a relationship. On one hand, he will flat out tell me that he isn’t available and doesn’t know when/if he will be even after the divorce. But, on the other hand, [...]
